I was born in 1993 in Kampot province. Growing up I didn’t know the kids in my village that well. When I left class, I’d go straight home and never really played outside. Sometimes my mom told me not to go around visiting neighbors because they weren’t close to my family and she thought I would lose time studying or doing homework. So even if I wasn’t doing anything I’d be at home. But sometimes, when my parents weren’t home and I wanted to play, I’d run out and meet friends.
We didn’t have a preschool in my village so I studied three kilometers away at a school in another village. To get there, either I would walk or my mom would take me. I did this until the fourth grade when I could ride a bike to school. This continued until seventh grade. It was frustrating. Every year I advanced my studies, my village school would only begin offering the grade I had just completed.
When I reached first grade my village opened a preschool; as I entered second grade they started teaching first; and when I reached third grade they offered second. This continued all the way until sixth grade. When I reached ninth grade I finally had the courage to ask the teachers why they never started classes for my age when I was small. They told me they didn’t teach because in my year there weren’t enough students.
In Cambodia you must pass a test to advance to seventh grade. For this first test I felt so nervous that I wouldn’t pass. And even when I passed I didn’t know my grade because the teachers didn’t tell the students the scores. But when I started classes they assigned me to study in an “A” classroom. Only gifted students get to study in A classrooms. When I told my parents they were happy and bought me new shoes. With the exception of ninth grade, which was my weakest year for various reasons, from seventh to twelfth grade I placed in good classes.
- Age: 30
- Ethnicity: Khmer
- Country: Cambodia
School & Program
- Royal University of Fine Arts
- Bachelor’s, Architecture
Goals & Dreams
- Become an urban architect
- Build a resort in my hometown
- Loan Amount: $1,400
- Amount Left To Fund: $0
- Contract Duration: 10 years
- Status: Repaid in Full
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In my second semester of twelfth grade my eyesight became bad because I would study at night without much light. My parents didn’t allow me to study too late so they would turn off the light, usually around ten. But I’d stay up and study with an oil lamp.
After I graduated twelfth grade I came to Phnom Penh to take the test to study at the Royal University of Fine Arts. I was already interested in architecture because on my first trip to Phnom Penh in eighth grade I saw a house my uncle built and thought it was beautiful Sonroup, a major type of Khmer architecture. After passing the test and talking with my older brother, I chose architecture as my major.
In the future I want to build a resort at my home in the village, move my parents to Phnom Penh for a while so that they can experience the city life, and have a better standard of living for myself. Someday, I also want to see Phnom Penh city orderly and my country without beggars.
Written by Udom with editing assistance from Zomia’s volunteer editors.
“In the future I want to build a resort at my home in the village, move my parents to Phnom Penh for a while so that they can experience the city life, and have a better standard of living for myself.”